Would you think it was weird if two people you knew who had been married for a good 5 or so years decided to have a commitment ceremony/second wedding?
Would you make the effort to go?
When I married my DH I was only 20. We had a registry wedding in our jeans and t shirts with just my parents as witnesses. We didn't even tell anyone we were married until at least two years later.
We don't have wedding rings, and we have no photos of our wedding day whatsoever.
At the time I didn't really care, but in the last year or so I've started to feel like maybe we missed out a bit, you know? I would love to now stand up in front of all of our friends and family and declare our love for each other. I'd love to wear the pretty dress for a day, and a wedding band for the rest of my life. I'd love to have photos to show our kids of our wedding day, and celebrate with the people who mean the most to us.
Weve talked about having a commitment ceremony, but I'm a bit hesitant because I don't think anyone will come. I mean, we ARE already married and everything.
If it were your family member/friends, would you make the effort to go or would you think it was weird?
Has anyone ever done/been to something similar?