Any advice would be great, I seperated from my ex father of my dd whom is 10 the day I found out I was pregnant, she has been going to her dads every second weekend. The last few years she's been going less and less due to her dancing commitments as he won't take her to anything. She has now put her foot down saying she doesn't want to go due to when she's there she does nothing, or has to look after the other kids 7 and 2, she feels very left out. I haven't forced her to go but explained that she needed to tell her father why she wasn't going to his house, I have also explained that she will have to go fathers day, birthdays, Xmas etc.
Have I done the right thing? When are they old enough to make such decisions???? Her father and I don't talk so I can't approach him regarding this.
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