I'm sure there are others out there that find the big life decisions tough. What sort of decision maker are you?
I am a second guesser - I commit to a well informed and researched life decision and then before executing it I second guess myself and wonder if that really is the right one or whether the alternatives might be worth a reconsider. Then I just feel like I am going in a circle and don't really get anywhere because I can't decide what to do.
I just wish there was an app or a person you could talk to and say "this is what I'm thinking, is this the right thing to do?" and you could get a definitive answer. I'm struggling with two pretty big ones and it is really starting to grate on me because of the uncertainty. I am a planner and an over-thinker too so plenty working against me.
My sister is of the "everything works out in the end" camp but many of their life decisions have worked out thanks to some good luck and/or plenty of assistance from parents. DH and I have never had anything handed to us and definitely don't have luck behind us so our situation feels different.