So I need some advice.
I have 2 kids 2.5 and 11wk old.
Father and I are in high conflict and separated.
He just started having access visits this week.
First visit went well, but he was late!!
Today, when I picked up the kids he was on drugs, smoking marijuana.
He has a history of using speed, coke, pot, acid and more.....
I DO NOT want my children exposed to that.
I want to tell him that he is not allowed to have access to them if he is on drugs.
But I am scared of the legal implications.
I already have a lawyer on board, as the father has refused to sign the birth certificate for the 11wk old and refuses to pay child support.
He is supposed to pay child support for our 2.5yo but he never does.
I just don't want my kids around him while he is high.
But I don't want to be the one who denies him access to his kids.
Not that he wants it..
He only wants to see our 2.5yo and not the baby.
HELP...any suggestions please.....