JFB - I'm so sorry to hear about your Dad's illness. It sounds like he has a good chance of recovery but it's still pretty crappy news to receive at Christmas time. :hug:
Alittle - both Starfish and I got PG with terrible linings, mine was only 5mm at ovulation (went up to 6 afterwards) and Starfish's was around the 5mm mark too. If your embies are okay, there is hope. It's awful that Wazza thinks you were damaged by the surgery though. Like it wasn't traumatic enough
AFM - it's much better now, on the other side of yesterday. Im proud of myself for getting through it, especially the lead up which was excruciating. The staff at Tweed Heads Hospital were just angels, nothing was too much trouble, and while I was under I dreamed of a heavenly playground. I can still hear the kids laughing, it was beautiful. I'd like to think I was 'dropping Wilbur off' there. JFB your idea of a memorial was a good one, I'm off now to buy a little box to put all the mementos in, scan pics and blastie photo etc, so I can keep it somewhere special and bring it out to look at once in a while.
I second your thoughts Amum about our group of friends, it's beyond just a thread group after these years travelling together, and it helps me immensely to know that you have all been where I am and have come out the other side. Thanks for all your kindness and empathy, it's beyond priceless.