Kismet - You have already had a really challenging few years with your mums health. I'm so sorry this has come up. I'm here if you want to talk, and I wish I was physically closer so that I can take Evie and give you a break when you need one. I'm sorry for your father too Cancer totally sucks. I know breast cancer has a high survival rate (my aunt got it in her 60s and has been cancer free for over a decade), but it is the last think your mother needed to deal with on top of everything else.