Hi. I'm currently 9 weeks pregnant with my 3rd baby and my partners 1st. I've had a previous twin pregnancy and they are now 4.
My problem is with his mother- I've met the woman 3 times and to be honest she scares the crap outta me not to mention the stories he has told me about his childhood. She wants to go shopping and do movies all the bonding- I don't do any of that, it's not really my type of thing. The first time I saw her after she found out about the baby she had come over almost demanding we have to have traditional family names included in the baby's name, and that she would go out and buy pretty much everything for the baby. Maybe I'm just a control freak but I love the shopping for a baby, going out with my partner and picking out cots and prams and bottles ect. Anyway I get a phone call today saying that she had gone out and laybyed a $600 pram for $99. This seriously ****ed me off- would you not think to check first if it's suitable for the mum and baby?? Am I just being selfish? Do I need to relax a little?