Would you call her a friend?

**~ElectricPink~** · 02-08-2012 10:27

Originally Posted by BigRedV

I would just delete her now and I would delete her phone number.

This ^^ she really doesn't seem worth the effort!

**delirium** · 02-08-2012 10:43

When reading your thead it came across pretty strong to me that she no longer wanted to be friends and is trying to gently give you the hint. But I was going to say keep her on your FB for a month or so and see if she makes contact, otherwise as someone else said, you may come across a bit 'you don't want to be my friend so I'm dumping you off FB'.

But then I read your latest update and she actually seems quite hostile. Clearly something is going on. After that latest comment I would be hitting the unfriend button and never looking back.

**My Beloved Ones** · 02-08-2012 14:34

Wow, Ive just been through something similar. I let things naturally die between my friend and I as I was sick of always being the instigator. Anyway, I saw her a month ago (first time since before Christmas) at the mall and she turned and walked in the opposite direction! So I went home and deleted her off facebook- cos then its serious lol. A few weeks later she sent me a text saying I noticed we are no longer friends on FB etc etc, we sorted a few things out and agreed to me. Low and behold she has cancelled the next two meetings since lol. Im not suprised. I guess what Im saying is people never change and you are better off making a clean cut and forgetting about her. Best of luck xx

**My Beloved Ones** · 03-08-2012 15:14

Sorry I seemed to have killed your thread lol

**aish** · 03-08-2012 18:25

I have her in a different group on FB so she actually has to go on my profile to see my posts, well lo and behold she went on it because she was 'liking' my statuses, one of which was a general one that said "in the mood for a chat if anyone's up for it" yet never actually heard anything from her. Don't know what her problem is. Maybe your "friend" and mine are related! Haha

**LifeInShadesOfGrey** · 15-08-2012 01:03

I am sorry to hear that has bene happening to you. It sounds to me like she is just taking you for a ride. Maybe you need to ask her what on earth is going on. I would rather have no friends then have a friend that treated me like crud.

**aish** · 29-08-2012 22:00

*update*

She's behaving like we're friends again! Without any action from me. I'm shocked.

**bub4rosie** · 30-08-2012 05:36

How are you going to respond? Have you been in touch since you last posted about it? ... She sounds like a high maintenance kind of person!!

**BigRedV** · 30-08-2012 05:39

I would still not want to be friends with her.

**sparklebug** · 30-08-2012 06:38

Originally Posted by BigRedV

I would still not want to be friends with her.

I tend to agree or at least keep your guard up. I've got a "friend" with whom things just didn't work I guess she was making more effort then I was in the end but that's a long story. I feel guilty deleting her off FB tho, as we are so connected through other ppl, I've just got my privacy settings set up so she can't see a bunch of stuff.
I always tell myself just forget about her, but it's hard when someone's hurt you and you don't know why!