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    I have someone in my life who thinks no one can dare whinge about their problems because she has some fairly bad circumstances.

    But really, our problems are big to us and while sometimes perspective may be necessary, most days a handless, starving, raped and ostracized woman who has watched her children be murdered or starve to death living in Africa is always going to 'win' that one and if that means we can't be upset about our lot in life, then that's really unhealthy to suppress. It's all how relative it is to our personal situation.

    Although, I do think often people think they're being helpful by letting people know they're not alone and just overstep the mark, coming off as insensitive.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Refresh View Post
    I feel the same actually now. I have been here for years and years abd have been largely positive I think. But at the moment I am going through probably the hardest time of my life so have been sharing a bit because I am really struggling. . I try to still be supportive of others. Feel really stupid now.
    I also consider myself a happy, supportive person but like you and a few others have gone thru the worst month of my life. I probably seem needy and depressed, especially in my ttc after m/c group.

    I know the OP is saying she is referring to IRL, but really, the forum is an extension of real life. I certainly don't mean to come across I have it worse than others. Thankfully I have some really supportive people in my life atm

    Hugs Refreshed and to the others not travelling well here

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    I totally agree with this. I notice this especially in my mothers group. I don't even tell my story as I know I've had a hard upbringing and don't need anyone to confirm that. I just listen and nod sympathetically. I think some people just want to be heard and appreciated.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Refresh View Post
    I feel the same actually now. I have been here for years and years abd have been largely positive I think. But at the moment I am going through probably the hardest time of my life so have been sharing a bit because I am really struggling. . I try to still be supportive of others. Feel really stupid now.
    Oh no you don't!!! Stop that kind of thinking now!

    Nobody on this forum should think they are stupid or anything like that when posting in here for support.
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    Mothers groups lol. My baby started getting teeth at 5 months, that sounds early right? No, my baby had 2 teeth by 4 months. Well MY baby was 6 weeks! Well done, your baby must be super smart to get teeth then.

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    Quote Originally Posted by share a book View Post
    Mothers groups lol. My baby started getting teeth at 5 months, that sounds early right? No, my baby had 2 teeth by 4 months. Well MY baby was 6 weeks! Well done, your baby must be super smart to get teeth then.
    ... well my baby was born with them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BlissedOut View Post
    ... well my baby was born with them.

    Well my baby was a zygote with them!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Greenhorn View Post
    Well my baby was a zygote with them!
    My egg had teeth before the sperm even got there.

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    Oh my gosh it annoys me..
    I got diagnosed with ms around a fortnight ago and when I told my roommate I got
    'oh yeah I understand I've had this pain in my hip for ages. At least you dont blah blah blah'

    WTF? I wasn't competing lady!

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    Quote Originally Posted by London View Post
    My egg had teeth before the sperm even got there.
    My egg had teeth first AND was eating me from the inside out!!!

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