This is my first time posting so forgive me if I don't know all the lingo. Our first little one is 10 weeks old and my husband still doesnt feel much towards her - he is tired and sees it as just another job to do (2am feed). He is s very loving affectionate guy but as he says "never been good with babies". I wondered if from a guys perspective this is normal and I shouldn't worry - he will come round. He does evening settling and bath time but mostly sees her crying, taking a bottle or sleeping so doesn't get any smiles. She's an sensitive baby so we can't over stimulate her by playing with her or she cracks it. I know he will cope so much better when his feelings of love come through and I want to help him. What should I do? Be patient?