I have always done all the feeds because none have had bottles, I generally do baths and make dinners. DH does brekky for the kids because apparantly he makes a better bowl of cereal than me (according to the kids!) I don't mind haha. He does the morning bus run. Um, most of the housework naturally goes to me when I am not working....but he doesn't hesitate to just do something if need be. I don't expect anything in particular we both just get in and do what needs doing. The months that I work we have a cleaner to lighten the load and the kids come to work with me.