So my MIL and SIL through out my first pregnancy said things like, "I hope it's a girl" "we need a girl" and even introduced my bump as the new niece, in the end I was pretty p!ssed with it all and started replying with some pretty stern comments. DS was then born and well they don't really come to see him much etc.
So I announced our pregnancy today and I have already had comments "I'm praying for a girl" WTF let the baby be what it will be, I will love it no matter what bits it has between it's legs.
I do worry that if it's a girl they will favor her over DS, this will be something that I will put a stop to ASAP.
They are rather possessive people so they kind of think DS is theirs e.g. You know when you get the chain messages on Facebook and depending on the colour f your top etc that's what destination your going to (iykwim) I wrote on there that I was going to Paris, SIL replied with yeh you go but DS is staying with me, your not taking him anywhere!bat that stage she hadn't seen him since his was born and even then she told me she didn't like his name etc.
Does anyone else have inlaws like this?