Our DS is 7 weeks old, our first bub and we are in our 30s and have been together for 6 years. DH has been supportive, particularly in the first few weeks, but I can sense the enthusiasm to help is waning and I'm starting to get a bit cross and resentful. I think when he gets home from work to when I head up to bed that we should be sharing the load 50/50 but instead I seem to be increasingly attempting to make dinner and bath/ feed/ bed DS all at the same time. DS has reflux so not an easy baby to put down. DH gets his feet up, tv on and laptop out. He watches footy shows, watches football all weekend and kinda seems to be living the same life he had before but perhaps with more tv because I'm not there to encourage him to switch it off. My life has changed so much, shouldn't his a bit too? I want to know if it's normal, if I'm expecting too much or if I should try to say something.. diplomatically but effectively!? I want to encourage him not whine and complain but I can feel the complainy comments simmering ready to come out and start fights that I don't have the energy for!