I actually didnt see the section it came from as im on my phone and it popped up in the new posts part so i apologise for intruding.
I will say tho, i do personally find it difficult to relate to getting upset over what people who dont know me, and i dont know them say about something i do (especially when its not directed personally at me) Maybe i have developed a thick hide from having special needs children? But i learnt a long time ago to have a "and who the heck are you?" type of attitude when anyone says anything?
What im trying to get at, and this is especially for you Benji because i see you get upset by the judgment of being a working mother all.the.time. Is... You are a wonderful mother, your child is happy and healthy and loved Dont ever feel down on yourself for providing for your child, Feel proud. There is NO WAY i could do what you do, regardless of the difference in the number of how many children we have. You know all that really matters at the end of the day is you, your child, and your partner... If all three of you are happy and content, then everyone else's opinion mean NOTHING.
Im gonna bow out now. But really, every working parent should read my last paragraph, and even non working parents, change a few words and it applies to you too. Got Happy, loved children? you're winning!