DS is 16 months old and everytime DH and I argue he would either hit his own head with his palms and scream or if I was sad and in tears at the time of argument he would cry too and cuddle me until everything's ok. DH and I have always argued on a daily basis for as long as I can remember. We don't get aggressive and no violence involved. Since DS is born I have been trying to argue less or keep my voice level down when I need to complain about something to still keep a smily face so DS won't feel anything different. But a few weeks ago when he hit his head for the first time during an arguement and I am concerned. Since then of we tried to keep normal voice volume and tone when argue, so it sounds like talking but somehow DS can still feel the tension. I tried to ignore DH or step back to avoid arguement but I am not able to sit back and let him do what I believe is wrong. I tried to talk or argue the point later when DS is napping or not around, but DH would just deny everything and dimiss me and the conversation. Grrrrrhhh. So I am interested to know what does your toddler do when you argue with your partner or husband and what do you do when you need to argue about something.