I am entitled though to in my own mind, decide whether or not I want to be a part of it. If they want to do that, that's fine.
I was recently in a circle where every second day there was a Tupperware or linen party. I couldn't attend because of other things I had on, but people were saying how it was uncomfortable, they felt pressured and that people were trying to out-spend, etc.
These were events where women would brag about their husbands earning whatever they earned, the latest and greatest toys they had, etc.
That's what I don't want to be a part of, and if that makes me judgemental, so be it. But I don't care what kind of money you make, or what kind of car you drive. If you give people a go, then it's all good.
I give people a go as well and go out of my way for people, but if it seems as though they just want somebody to compete with or try outdoing, etc, I'm gone.