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    So I spoke with HR today who confirmed I will get the company paid leave again, thank god! Thanks everyone for your advice.

    Feeling a little more relaxed about everything now - also had a dating scan today and I'm 6w5d. DH still in denial, so that's my biggest issue at the moment

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    Glad to hear you will get your maternity pay.

    Congratulations btw

    Hows ur DH feeling about it all? Have you had a good chat about it?


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    Quote Originally Posted by ShanandBoc View Post
    Glad to hear you will get your maternity pay.

    Congratulations btw

    Hows ur DH feeling about it all? Have you had a good chat about it?

    Thank-you

    That's the problem - he won't talk about it! He has acted as though it hasn't happened. I'm giving him a few more days to absorb and process it before I say 'suck it up, smile & be grateful for our miracle'. I'm still in shock too, but we need to accept & embrace it to enjoy the journey.

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    aww give him time im sure he will come around.

    Its a big shock, but you will both look back and not trade it for anything im sure

    All the best xox

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    Considering your slim chances of falling naturally I would embrace this new baby as a true miracle!!!

    Congratulations!!!!!

    You will cope fine with the age gap, I'm sure your DS and new bubs will be great friends!!

    Your DH is processing the shock, try give him some space and he too will see what a miracle this new baby is!

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