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    Quote Originally Posted by Janesmum123 View Post
    So she doesnt want to look after her kids but then looks after other peoples.
    Bit of a concern.
    Yep. Doesn't make a whole lot of sense to me. The entire child care is a shambles though so I am pulling both of them out. There are 2 amazing staff members that are leaving (she isn't one of them..) and I'm sure half the centre will leave once they do.

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    Yes I'd be pulling DD out.

    If her children have been taken off her & put in foster care it's because she's not fit to care for children.

    If she gave her children up to foster care, I'm 'guess' it's because she thinks they are either better off in the care of someone else, so she doesn't think she's fit to keep her children.

    They ONLY reason I'd leave DD in her care, is if the reason her children were taken were due her not being able to financially afford them. And this is probably the least likely reason .

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    Yes I would pull my DD out. I wouldn't feel comfortable with my daughter being in the car of someone who has had their own children taken away from them.

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    I would pull DD out and some may say that thats judging without knowing the circumstances but to me my DD's welfare is more important (not saying the lady has done anything wrong to/around my DD) and Im not willing to risk it.

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    There is no way I would have someone care for my child if I was aware her own children were taken away from her.

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    I would pull them out without a moments hesitation.

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    I'd definately be pulling my kids out until you could at least find out why she doesn't have her kids in her care.

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    id be pulling my kids out

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    In a heartbeat id remove my child from her care

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    I would want to know more first, I would think that if there were factors such as lack of care, hygiene or abuse then I would have noticed some things of concern right from the start and not even taken my child to begin with, but I guess you just never know.


 

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