yeah I agree he has no right to privacy. if I stayed the conditions would be I have complete access to any electronic communication.
I'd consider it an "affair" rather than "cheating"... which imo is far worse (to me) the premeditated and planned nature of his actions would hurt me worst than a drunken "mistake". I'm pretty sympathetic to how a lot of bad decisions can happen in a short period of time.
but an emotional affair, planned affair would crush me and I don't know how I'd rebuild trust tbh.
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