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    I don't know if I would consider it cheating, but I would be incredibly hurt and would find it difficult to trust again.

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    huge hugs
    to me yes its cheating. i haven't been in your position so can't say sorry. i *think if i was id prob try to work through it if dh also wanted to but im not sure if i would really get past it.

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    I say yes to cheating I am so sorry it's happened
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    I think what your DH did qualifies as a form of cheating, especially the part about them talking about meeting up. I would be gutted if my DH did that to me.

    I have not been through anything similar, but I'm sure others can give you some experienced advice

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    Yes! Huge hugs,' xxx

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    Cheating? I'm not sure I'd class it as such but the intent to cheat would be terrible.
    I'm so sorry this has happened to you

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    Firstly bug hugs and I'm so sorry you have had to go through this.
    For me yes it would be cheating and no I would never trust my DH again. By thinking those things and actually putting them into words to the woman in question is emotionally cheating. Plus if there was a date arranged it sounds like it wasn't going to be just words for very long
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    Yes, he's cheated on your relationship. I don't think it matters that there was no physical contact between them.

    I'm so sorry you're going through this. Its soul destroying and heartbreaking.

    I haven't been through this exactly, but something similar. It was years ago, and trust has still not completely returned for me.

    It helps if they truly see that what they did was wrong and are remorseful at the pain caused and the damage done to your relationship (not just remorseful at being caught).



 

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