What is medically wrong with a person that they can't touch?
Anyway if they are that unhappy to a stage where they have to make online relationships with other people to make themselves feel wanted or needed or sexy or whatever they are doing then It's time to pack your bags and leave.
I have read those stories online both from men and women and honestly I don't get it. Why spend your best years unhappy? I would go mad in a relationship like that. If you are happy then that's great but most of these people are miserable and spend their days thinking about getting laid.
I think from the story here, the lack of touch is due to the man being quite depressed.
I think these women feel bad about leaving their husband when he has such a bad injury...who will look after him?
its quite complex..
I don't think going behind his back is right though, total transparency is more my style.
S3x doesn't make a marriage, but without either a physical or emotional connection (which, if he will not even acknowledge that she has needs and feelings, it sounds like may have been lost) at some point it stops being a marriage and becomes a co-habitation. What a terrible situation to find yourself in, I feel for them both really.
I feel for them, although what is wrong with a vibrator? I don't quite get the cyber thing, surely they still communicate by word?
Hmm when I found out that my partner was flirting with random girls (never met, different country) just for the attention I was hurt. It was when we had just started dating, he had continued flirting with girls he had spoken to online before we met. It hurt alot and I told him that I still classed that as cheating and he had to stop or end relationship.
So I'd say yes it's wrong and still cheating, but i can see it would be horrible to be in a relationship where partner could not perform/be physical at all due to injuries or whatever. I could understand the frustration. But seeking elsewhere is still cheating I think.
Why not just read a good erotic book or watch a porno, get herself a few toys and go to town? Getting that sexual satisfaction without the second person.
I still think it's cheating regardless, but thats just my opinion.
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