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    Default Cheating mentally.

    Ok..

    I belong to a womans group for women who not have sex with their partners.
    Its worldwide and so we get loads of stories.

    All of which are anonymous.

    One ladies story made me wonder.. I wont post her story..
    But it brings the question..

    is it ok to mentally cheat..
    Like through email, chat rooms etc..

    Not meeting the person..

    Most of the women have not had sex in over 5 years..most of which is due to medical reasons with their husbands..

    so what do you all think?

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    Imho cheating is cheating whether mental, emotional or physical.

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    I guess it's still cheating though. What is actually happening via email and chat rooms?

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    Oh come on, If you're not getting 'the' attention at home for various reasons I think it's perfectly natural to get it elsewhere. The attention that is.

    It doesn't mean you love your partner any less.

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    They do not say what happens..so imaginations run wild.. haha

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    Quote Originally Posted by maybenumber3 View Post
    Imho cheating is cheating whether mental, emotional or physical.
    I agree.
    Emotional would be the worst kind for me

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    I am the same Loving..the emotional would hurt most.

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    Quote Originally Posted by maybenumber3 View Post
    Imho cheating is cheating whether mental, emotional or physical.
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    It's sort of tough without knowing the full situation. If it's one on one, intimate, emotional stuff then hell yes cheating and not ok. But.... not that I have done/would do this and I wouldn't be ok with DP doing it- but if it was like anonymous cyber sex in a chat room to me that's a little bit blurry. I'm not sure I'd call it cheating. It would be on the same level to me as my partner using a phone sex line (for example). I would feel icky and hurt and angry but not cheated on. Does that make sense? I suppose the same way some women feel about their partner watching porn.

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    I would hope that if I were in that circumstance (like the 5years etc) ..my partner and I would have spoken amount limitations and have come to some sort of 'agreement' to make sure everyone in the relationship was 'being taken care of' - emotionally/physically.

    ..cheating is cheating - if the woman telling the story considers it something she wouldn't want her husband finding out about - it's cheating.

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