I have 2 toddlers and I'm preg again. I'm 9weeks.
I have 0 motivation to do anything an the house is taking the toll due to this. My partner is starting to turn into a ********* an keeps making snid comments about how messy the house is yet never helps me. He works almost all day and sometimes 6 days a week he only worked 5 days and finished before 1pm twice. I only ever get a break from the kids te 1 day A week they go to daycare and in that day I have to get shopping done an anything else. The past 3 weeks iv been sick with migraines an now a cold. He dosnt seem to care about any of this an keeps saying if he was home with our kids the house would be spotless. I no for a fact it wouldn't coz he stresses out at the kids wanting to play with him, and he would be watching his tv all day. I have no family that live near me. So I'm alone. Iv only just got the car back and iv started taking the kids out to the park. I don't know what to do about my motivation with cleaning, it's just non existent and I wouldn't even know where to start. He even got angry at me because there is mould on the walls in the bath room where I can't reach (I'm very short) even standing on a chair. He makes a mess everytime he is home an I have to clean it. And I just don't no anymore