So, I've recently started seeing a man. First one since I left the ex 4 months ago. It seems soon, but I also should've left much sooner than I did, so by the time I did we all but hated each other.
That's beside the point
My question is: How do you know what to do when you start dating? In regards to the new man/woman meeting your kids? Should they meet Ex-DP before they meet DD? Should he have to "approve" of who will be possibly spending a large amount of time with DD? What have you done and what is your experience?
I always thought that I'd want to leave it at least 3 months before a prospective other half met DD, and that I'd introduce them to Ex-DP first. Now I don't know that I like that plan at all. It's not that I'm in a rush to play happy families, I just know that the ex will do WHATEVER he can to push my buttons and have as negative an effect on my life as he possibly can.
Any advice would be AWESOME!
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