2 weeks ago I decided DD was no longer allowed her dummy during the day.
She was sucking it constantly, mumbling around it, mum said every photo she has of DD she has a dummy in etc etc. She's very tall so looks more like a 3yo too. So I took it away and told her it was just for bedtime.
I didn't think shed have many problems with this, as she goes to school 2 days a week, and they only give it to her at nap time & they said she never asks for it.
We've had some good days, & some shocking ones, like today.
Ive never caved, just kept repeating 'only for nap time'.
Today I caved & she's currently sucking on it in the back of the car (long drive w screaming child = dangerous)
I just don't know what to do. I thought the first few days would be hard, then she would get used to it. But she's been all over the place with caring/not caring.
And as I said I've been very firm for the whole 2 weeks, except today, so It can't be due to inconsistency.