Hi all.. Things have been amicable with XDP, but honestly, he only sees 6 mth old DD 2-4 hrs a week. My friend mentioned that I should get a sole custody order or go through mediation to protect myself in the future, and I am wondering which is best? XDP rarely makes an effort with DD, he sees her when I ask him to but there is zero proactivity on his part, eg. we havent spoken in a week because I havent called him. I don't want him to suddenly decide in a year or 2 he wants sole custody of her. Should we agree to something now while things are reasonably amicable (meaning we dont fight)?
I'm so confused by it all, if someone could explain the different processes thatd be great
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