Thanks Mama C, yeah I left for ages and now seem to be addicted again and pondering life, lol. The story you told about the guy with the narcotics paints a pretty powerful picture of what I believe.
Buttoneska, I am so sorry you went through all of that, how awful I disagree(respectfully!!) though that some people are all bad or all good, I think everyone is redeemable and it is other factors that contribute to our response. I don't know, it's a tricky one. Do you think bad people can become good or vice versa?