My brother tends to be one of those guys, if it moves he will sleep with it! He has 4 kids that I know of and I only have anything to do with the first! I haven't spoken to my Brother in over 5yrs as he had a hissy fit and cut us out of his life! So I have 1 niece and nephew who I've never met nor have any inclination to meet! It's not the children's fault no but while he is involved In there life I won't be!!