Yes, because I'm human it does your kids NO GOOD to wrap them in cotton wool, If they hurt me I react the same way you do, I yell and put them down & walk away. Kids need to learn that they can hurt & upset mummy too. My kids are almost 17 (DSD) , 11.5 & 2 & another on the way, I yell, they are all happy confident, good students, lots of friends - yelling doesn't break them, I have proof!
Many years ago I walked into a friends and her 3yr old did something (I think it was make a silly noise) and she went BALLISTIC at her child. After it all calmed down I mentioned I thought she had over reacted, to her credit she patiently explained that the noise hadn't bothered her at 5:30am when she was awoken by it. By 9am it was getting on her nerves, but lunch she had started reacting & asked DD to please stop. By 3pm she was using time out & confiscating toys and now at dinner time she was done, she had heard that noise 2798 times that day. I got it. Maybe show hubby the story, he might get it too