THANK YOU for the Private step parent group link. I will most definitely be joining you there.
Thank you to all of you who can understand my predicament and who support me.
Hubby knows as well as me, that the love you have for step children is not the same love you have for your own children (we are both step parents). He understands this but finds it so difficult to accept.
My own DD has not even met her father. I have raised her for 15years on my own.
I dont know how to "copy someones post and paste it, to reply to it" but to "Withloveandlimits" - you must not be a step parent. If you had any idea how hard it is to raise some one elses children, (even without having a complicated pregnancy) you would have more compassion. Also in saying this, I appreciate we are all different and have different opinions.
To EVERYONE else - Im glad im not alone in this and you can see where i am coming from. Yes i care for his children, and want whats best for them always. I just really feel that Im entitled to a well deserved break since she (the BM) has already agreed to have HER children through the day, (FOR ONCE), I want to take the opportunity to have that break as I have no clue if this will ever happen again for us. (If we were going off past history, I'd be waiting another 5 years years for such an opportunity again)!!!
Thank you also for the well wishesin this pregnancy. You ladies are such a great support, I dont know what i would do without BH!!!
Wil join that group now