My DH took his wedding ring off and left it on a tiny kettle at my mum's house a little while ago. He has made no effort to collect and says that it is uncomfortable to wear. He also says it is too dangerous to wear at work. I suggested wearing it around his neck but he didn't like that idea. Is it normal for me to feel a little upset that he is refusing to wear it?
I feel like it is a symbol of the problems we are having. I have a problem with sex and don't ever want to have it. I have never been good in that area and always use to find it incredibly painful. He is the first person I have ever enjoyed it with so you would think that I would want to be intimate with him all the time but I can't think of anything worse. I have decided to seek counselling but when I suggested it to him he said it sounded expensive and unhelpful. I don't want to lose him but I think I will if I don't fix myself. I am so scared that he will just get so sick of it that he will kick me out. I lost someone before because of this and it took me years to find my DH. I love him very much!! I want to fix this badly