So, after 12 years together (9 years married), lies, betrayal, affairs the works, you would think that ex-DW and I wouldn't get on. The bloke she had the affair with is now her live in partner and I, to be honest, did a similar thing right at the end. You would think that after hurting each other so much that we'd hate each others guts.
But no! Weirdly, we seem to get on better now than we did for years. Maybe its because one doesn't feel more hurt than the other now? I don't know. But this weekend for example, her DP is going out of town for the weekend so we're going to catch up for lunch and then take the kids to the movies. She's now a really good friend. Oh, we have our moments like all exes do, don't get me wrong. But yeah, we get on really well and still enjoy each others company (in small doses lol)
Does anyone else have that kind of relationship with their ex? Where there is no romantic type of feelings there any more but you're still mates?