Hello lovely ladies!
He was so excited that I was pregnant but now that I am visibly pregnant (26 weeks) its all becoming to real for him and he is freaking out.
My partner does not enjoy touching my belly to feel the baby move, he does not talk to the baby, he thought seeing the baby move (like when your tummy moves) was gross!
I know he does not find my body attractive anymore (though he has never said that but the lack of touching and interest in sex can only suggest he does not like my body right now..). Its very weird for me to be with him and him not show an ounce of interest in sex when he used to be all over me (once upon a time...).. makes me feel quite unattractive.
and on top of all that, a few days ago he said I looked really weird, he does not recognise me anymore "its like you are wearing a fat suit, its so strange to see you with a round tummy and bigger boobs, I'm not used to it"
I don't know what to do? He was "baby crazy" from the day I met him, he would tell me how jealous he was of anyone that had kids and couldn't wait to have a child of his own.. so I thought everything would be amazing the moment I was pregnant... it hasn't been.. the bigger my tummy gets the more it becomes a reality and it freaks him out.
i don't know if anyone has any advice on how to make him feel more at ease with this pregnancy? or if anyone went through something similar with their partner?
I know the minute he sees her he'll be delighted, but i still have 3 more months (and a lot more tummy growing) to do and don't want to feel so unattractive .. I want him to be happy (even if its only a little bit)...