You tell me this now?!?

[bubbabailey]

Tonight husband and I had yet another discussion about the fact that we have been in an on and off relationship for almost 5 years and he tells me tonight at the age of 31 after getting married last year and having two children and then TRYING for another baby just last month, that he is not ready to settle down. Deep down inside he has felt it for a while but he is not tired of trying to play happy families.
We have had almost 5 years of struggle.
It has all come to an end permanently and it is just super sucky that he didn't speak up years ago!!
I posted last night after a discussion we had last night. And now tonight it has come to this....
Cheers!!

[MissMuppet]

I'm so sorry you're going through this; how heartbreaking.

Its a little late for him to decide this now! He needs to grow up.

[bubbabailey]

He hadn't really moved in at all, so he is really just not going to stay here over night any more :S
I feel bad for the kids

[anewme]

[waterlily]

Wow, you poor thing. It sounds like he has been playing you for a long time you sound like a very strong person, your kids will be okay because they will have you.

[missybubble]

You'll be ok. It's hard but it sounds like it's for the best