This is just a vent more than anything.
DS is 21 months old. On average I get asked once or twice a week when we'll have another one and it's starting to really antagonize me. The thing is, I don't KNOW when we'll have another - all I know is that DH and I are not completely ready to just yet. I'm about 85% there, DH is maybe 50%. If DH was more 'onboard' with the idea we'd be TTC very soon... but he isn't and I'm not about to talk him into it as I think it needs to be a mutual decision. So our plan is to wait. We'll reassess in 6 months but for now we both have other things we would like to focus on, plus the fact we're just enjoying our DS. I feel like I have to suddenly justify all of this to anyone that asks. Like it's just soooo unusual for us to not have 2 under 2 or something?!?
I know people ask 'when are you going to have #2?' because it's just something to say but I'm honestly worried I'll snap at the next person who asks. Perhaps I'm being a little sensitive about it but I also tend to think it's rude to ask when you don't know the person's background - I shudder to think how I'd respond if we WERE trying and having issues.
Has anyone faced the same? What was your standard response?