New mums or anyone going through stress need good people who help in ways that dont add stress.
I'd like as many hints as possible from your experiences good and bad of how to be a good support person, mother, mother in law, grandmother,
things to do and not do .
we need so much diplomacy, patience, listening, thick skins, wisdom, to help and not get hurt and not hurt and prevent or clear misunderstandings, and keep the atmosphere light and not stressful and not add stress to parents who are going through hard times.
all hints welcome pls.