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    Default when did this happen...

    well im a regular BH'r undercover atm, cos tbh i'm ashamed of myself

    so i've always had a kinda been very down on myself...who knows why...so i've got a LO and im scared of what my LO will think of me when he's old enough to understand who i am and what i do sometimes...

    so i'm overweight - and i have been since i can remember...and at times i'll go through phases of eating and then throwing everything up and then weighing myself before and after - and then i seem to b happy that oh yay there goes some weight...

    i also used to self harm myself quite a bit and have scars up my arms from it, and i dont know how im ever going to explain it to DS if/when he asks - what am i going to say "oh that's just how i deal with things" wth...

    i guess theres just some things i do that i hate and i dont know how to stop them, and im scared that DS will hate me one day for the things that i do to myself...

    i just wanna stop all of my self harmin behaviours, but ive got no idea how to

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    I don't have any suggestions for you, but just wanted to say I think you are brave for speaking out about it and that its a great start! *hugs*

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    Perhaps checking out Beyond Blue or The Butterfly Foundation online would be good first steps. Beyond Blue deals with depression, The Butterfly Foundation is for eating disorders.

    If you're in a place where you can recognise how damaging this behaviour is, that's good news! So now is definitely the time to act. Going to the GP, talking to him/her and asking for a mental health plan is a good place to start as well. You do this because you're unhappy... and dealing with that will probably help you to stop doing it.

    I went through a stage where I starved myself... then purged when I did eat... so I understand what it's like. I even documented on BH all those years ago (lovely, eh?).

    xx Hang in there, seek help.


 

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