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    Default I have nothing going for me.

    i am Ugly
    I am Fat
    I have a **** personality
    My Husband hates me
    I am a bad wife
    I am a Bad mum
    My child has to go to daycare 5 days a week
    My Parents are separated
    I have No best friend
    i have No close friends- I will never be anyone's bridesmaid or godmother
    i have No real friends, just acquaintances
    I am a bad friend
    I don't get along with my in-laws
    i have No money, no savings
    I have too many bills and loans that I can't afford to pay
    I have a **** job
    i am **** at my job
    I am lazy and don't want to work
    I have a Car I regret getting- cant afford it
    I have Degree I regret getting
    I have No house to call my own



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    your post made me think of the movie 'the help'

    "you is kind
    you is smart
    you is important"

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    I bet if I knew you I'd be able to challenge your list. I'm sure they are many great things about you. I think it's time to start a positive list.

    Starting with I am important ...

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    I think there are times when we could probably all say that abor ourselves... But you know what? It's probably not true. You're probably not as bad as you believe. Some of it is probably true... Like hating your job... But otherwise, I'm sure things aren't as horrible as you believe at the moment.

    Have you spoken to a dr about all of this? You may be suffering from a mental illness... And life might not seem so terrible if it's dealt with.
    I've now lost 36kg thanks to the gastric sleeve!
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    I agree with sassy. You should talk to a doctor. I don't know you but I find it hard to believe that list is true.

    Accept the things you can't change. Work on the ones you can.


 

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