The sooner women stop judging and competing with each other the better.
No one does it right or wrong, just differently.
If women as a whole stopped treating each other as the enemy and actually banded together, the changes that could be made in the world would be astounding.
OP I'm sorry if you're feeling attacked for your situation. Just go about your life with your head held high, knowing that you are providing the absolute best you can for your child.