Ok, well my DS got an invitation to a girls birthday party(she turns 3), and well none of my kids really have been invited to a party before. I don't even know the parents. So do you drop your kid at the party and leave them there til you pick them up, or do you stay? And another point is my son is autistic, and he will kinda need me there as I don't know if the other parents know how to deal with special needs children. Id feel a bit weird if no other parents stayed, and considering I don't know the people, but I don't want my son to miss out. I guess Ill just have to email her and ask. But what do you do with your children, regardless if they have special needs or not?