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    Default Just found out a friend has wks to live :(

    A friend of mine got diagnosed with breast cancer in feb last year. She's been fighting it and has been on the mend. She sadly now has been overtaken and has been given weeks to live she has a young family (6yrs, 4yrs and 1yr) so it's devastating. I want to do something to let them know I care and to kind of say goodbye. I don't however know if they are just seeing family now etc, so don't want to turn up at their house. We are friends, but not besties or close close friends so don't want to overstep. I was thinking of maybe sending flowers and a card? I just don't know what's appropriate

    Any ideas or help? Xx

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    Oh how devastating. I think flowers and a card to let her know you're thinking of her would be lovely

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    Thank u. I want to ensure they know I'm thinking of them. She's such a beautiful person it's awful! And only mid 30's too

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    Quote Originally Posted by Benji View Post
    Oh how devastating. I think flowers and a card to let her know you're thinking of her would be lovely
    This exactly.

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    Flowers and card would be lovely, even a home made meal dropped over for them I'm sure would be appreciated

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    I've been doing meals off and on during her illness but don't wanna drop in at mo incase they only want family round thanks to all of u xxx

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    Hugs to your friend and her family.

    I would say drop around but very quickly. They will tell you if they want you around at the time you drop things off.

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    Just wanted to give you some hugs

    What a horrible thing to happen thoughts are with you and your friend

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    It's awful. Her daughter turns five in 3wks. Can't imagine the feeling of knowing u won't be around for yr kids

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    I would offer a playdate for the kids. She could probably do with an arvo off.


 

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