Hey wunsi thanks for posting. Pls post whenever u feel like it. I'm silently stalking the other thread, but not sure I'll post there again, seeings the argument is still going and some was clearly directed at me
Girlx hun, I think what u r doing is normal. Did your friend conceive with ivf?
I think some people have that instinct and some don't. Just like some have the so called maternal instinct and some dont. And talking about that one can be dangerous because it can send new mums into a spiral. So take it with a grain of salt I reckon. Gd luck to your friend and her instinct but u need to do what makes you happy, health safe. And a good ugly cry is always gd stress relief. Ivf is tough, even after the BFP.
Much of this process is out of our control so its no surprise u feel the way u do!!
Re freaking out about the scan, completely understand that one. Hang in there.