gah! this is really just a vent, although maybe someone can give me some advice.... So i have decided to let FOB take DS 10 mnts Every second sunday from 9 am - 2pm. I figure this is the best time to suit DS, me and FOB except "apparently" it doesnt suit FOB's GF! because she will be at work and wont get to see him..... Last time i checked, its really NOT ABOUT HER ! Now FOB said he doesnt want to take DS unless its from 12pm to 5pm (she finishes at 3pm)because his GF will get mad that she wont be there!!
I thought he would just be happy to take DS as i havent let him take him by himself yet but instead he is willing to give up his time with him just so it doesnt cause an argument with his GF. It makes me soooo mad and upset that he would do that just so his GF doesnt have a tantrum!!!
We had a huge argument tonight and its upset me because i really do not want to argue with him but he doesnt seem to understand where i am coming from and that DS has a routine!
This isnt the first time we have argued because something isnt making his GF happy and i am just so over it now... we have never argued about anything else and it just frustrates me that when we do its about her..
ARGGG i just dont know what to do anymore