Wow I can not believe she acts like that and put your babies life at risk. What a nutter. There would be no way ild let any of my children EVER stay the night again. I read your op and was like wtf... Then read some of the responses and was gob smacked at how people are responding, what would they do if it was there child with breathing probs and their mils were ignoring your and the doctors safety requests? I know ild be livid an I prob would of gone an picked them up that night. I'm just shocked at the responses.
As for putting it on fb, I wouldn't put the q directly but I would I made a snide remark but wouldn't mention names or anything an only if I was so angry