This weekend I organised for my DHs best friends fo travel from interstate to celebrate his birthday weekend with him as it was a milestone.
I organised a dinner out and drinks afterwards. Throughout the night I felt as though he was excluding me from the whole goings on in the evening. At one point making a remark to my female friend that I felt overstepped the boundary of where their relationship should be.
Afterwards we went out on the town and towards the end of the night we ended up in a strip club. (this wasnt a massive issue for me as we have been before as a couple). I stayed back with my friend as she wanted food and my DH and his friend went on with one of his friends staying behind woth me. We followed a short time later and upon arrival at this club he acknowledged the two people I was with and looked straight through me like I didnt exist. They had one of the dancers sitting with them and talking to them.
I did not feel particularly inclined to sit through the personal dance and neither did the two people I was with so we went to play pool. When I went to the bar for a drink he was having a personal dance and he looked at me with what could only be described as hatred or contempt and it also felt as though he was tdying to rub my face on the fact that my body is nowhere near as good as hers. He was almost drooling at the body parts in his face. The way he was looking at her body was a way he has never looked at me.
I not only felt low but jealous and couldnt help but wonder how he would feel in the same situation. I know that he gets incredibly jealous if I even talk to men in a social environment.
I left straight after this as with all the events of the night and afternoon I felt incredibly hurt.
Have I overreacted or am I not alone with this or a similar situation?
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