I *think* i want to find out our baby's gender!
Ive been having a good hard think about it and believe all my frustrations and mood swings are stemming from "the unknown"! as stupid as that sounds, i am not a fan of the unknown!
I like to plan and prepare ahead of time and expect the expected!
DD's gender was kept a suprise to us and in all honesty, it took a good while for it all to sink in - omg, i actually have a daughter!
DH refuses to even talk about finding out the gender, so how do i do this without him knowing?
Will i be able to keep it to myself? i guess i'll just tell everyone else we didnt find out!
So if i do find out, i will get the initial suprise of joy but i will also have some 'down time' for it all to sink in. Which i like the sound of.
Why did you find out the gender? Do you think it's a good idea of i find out and my dh doesnt? shouldnt it be something we share?