I never got a hand and so everything i have i worked for and paid for myself, this has given a great deal of accomplishment and taught me valuable money management skills. Nothing bets the feeling of knowing you have achieved something on your own merit, rather than just being handed it. I want my children to feel that.
This is why i won't be handing my children things like a house, i will help out but i won't just hand over stuff on a silver platter. I personally feel it is important to be able to stand on your own two feet