There is a school mum who i have nothing in common with who keeps persisting that DS should go over for a play and a sleepover.
DS doesnt play with her child.
I would of been interested in slowly getting to know her but some of the things she has said has totally put me off and i would rather not be around her and same goes for DS.
At school i will make small talk but thats about as far as i am interested.
Today she was asking what i had planned for school holidays and what was happening with DS when i work but i hadnt quite thought that far ahead as of yet so i said i had no idea. She said she could baby sit and DS could sleep over if i wanted to work afternoons.
I honestly have nothing in common with her and i cant see myself sitting at her place while the boys play even though they dont play at school. I also would not trust DS being there without me either.
She has texted me a few times asking for playdates and catchups but those times were also really inconvient for me so i never replied as i generally forget about them if i dont reply right on the spot.
Today she was going on about something and i said sorry i really wasnt listening as i was tired from work but she kept going on and not understanding and then going on about the party we had on the weekend which i invited her son to as i told DS it was everyone or nobody.
How can i politely say we are not interested in doing playdates and sleepovers because i really am not interested, our boys dont play together and we have nothing at all in common.
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