I also get annoyed by people who aren't flexible with minor hiccups (not talking about severe trauma) eg "oh no, I was forced to have the gas and I didn't want to.. Wah wah wah." seriously birthing is a complicated process, and as with life you can't always get your own way 100% of the time. As long as you and bubba is safe.
Im not saying this to be hurtful but No one really cares if you won the nobel peace prize or climbed mt Everest when giving birth. They just want to know the sex, name, weight, length and to perhaps cuddle to baby.