Yeah I can only go by my ob and I did love her, she was great and my obgyn for 10 years. With my 1st I was so afraid of labour I kept asking for a c/s and she refused, she never did c/s's for no reason. During labour she gave me a good go for vb. But then after I had the c/s at my appointment she then said I 'have to have a c/s because I had one' and we talked about this. When I got pregnant she also wouldn't allow a doula, hates them, and basically if I wanted a vbac I had to go public which is what I did. If I went through my ob for my 2nd I would have an elective, no choice about it. I'm sure there are pro vbac vb ob's out there, but I didn't get that with mine.
When I look back on it, the ob was great for the continuaty of care (but you can get that from a midwife aswell) and I liked the private hospital. I really didn't like shared care which I did 2nd time, but apart from that, it was free, I was low risk, no complications and paying for an ob would have been such a waste of money. They aren't cheap.